First of all, don't be embarrassed or hesitant. If you suspect you've been scammed, it's crucial to act quickly to minimize damage and determine the extent of the exposure.
Immediately cease all interaction with the suspected scammer. Do not respond to further communications.
If you've sent money or provided banking details:
If you've given out login information, change passwords for all affected accounts immediately. Use strong, unique passwords for each.
If you've granted remote access or downloaded software from the scammer:
* Note: simply turning your device off is often the first instinct, but depending on the exposure and what access the scammer had, they may have been able to install software that will simply start again when you turn your device back on.
Don't feel like you have to deal with it alone! In fact, it's much better if you speak to a friend or family member about what happened as soon as possible. Having another person involved will help catch points of exposure and provide a bit of comfort.
File a report with your local police department, especially if the scam involves significant financial loss or identity theft.
National and Online Reporting:
If the scam occurred on a specific platform (like eBay, Kijiji, Craigslist, or a social media site), report it there as well. If scammers were posing as a specific company (a financial institution, Amazon, Microsoft) the company will most likely have a system for reporting.
Place a fraud alert or credit freeze with major credit bureaus (Equifax, Experian, TransUnion) to prevent new accounts from being opened in your name.
Keep an eye on your bank statements, credit reports, and any online accounts for unusual activity for the foreseeable future.
Be wary of follow-up scams where someone might claim they can help you recover your lost funds for a fee. Scam organizations communicate and sell data to each other, so if one scammer has your information, they will share it. Genuine recovery services won't ask for money upfront.
Learn about common scam tactics to avoid future incidents. Share your experience (anonymously if preferred) to educate friends and family.
If the scam involves significant financial loss or identity theft, consulting a lawyer might be necessary to explore legal avenues for recovery.
If you've incurred debt or financial strain from the scam, speaking with a financial counselor might help in managing the aftermath.
Remember, scams are sophisticated and can happen to anyone. There's no shame in having been targeted; the key is in how you respond. Acting fast, being thorough in your reporting, and taking steps to protect your identity and finances are your best defenses after the fact.
Scams can be emotionally taxing. Don't hesitate to talk about your experience with trusted friends, family, or seek professional counseling if needed. It's important to act quickly to reduce the impact of a scam, but you also need to take care of yourself while you're doing it.